Tuesday, May 31, 2011

Do kids change in grade 11?

Hey everyone I'm in grade 10 and I'm wondering if kids start to grow up next year? Both last year and this year I've noticed that kids are so immature and they are at the peak of acting stupid. I'm the type of kid who's quiet and does their work but I look around and I see everyone acting like little kids. I don't feel like I'm better than anyone but like when I go to lunch I have some aquaintances that I it with. They make weird noises and laugh uncontrollably and I sit there and wonder how it's so funny. I have some friends, but only one of them is pretty close to my maturity level. I'm not a stick in the mud either, I love having fun with people but I don't understand the people my age, all they do is swear and make dumb jokes, then they look at me and I feel pressured to laugh but it's not funny... Do you guys/girls have any advice and knowledge about this, and will this change a bit by next year? These past two years I feel like I'm with little stupid kids who need to grow upDo kids change in grade 11?
mentally, the average human is not fully matured until about 25. mentality and perspective have the potential to change drastically from high school to college to adult life...especially factoring in societal expectations and social hierarchy.





this is part of my observational hypothesis of why divorce rates are so high. many 22 year old college grads feel that society expects them to marry right out of college. three or four years later, both individual's priorities have changed and it doesn't work out.Do kids change in grade 11?
Dont be pressured, your probably more mature than your peers but listen, the worst thing to do is to grow up. Dont ever grow up and become a miserable old adult. Have fun and relax. Dont rush into anything.
Some people just mature more faster then other people.
I can see where you're coming from. I am in 10th grade and I see many guys act stupid all the time. All I do is to try to accept them for who they are and try to make the best out of it! I'd advise you to ignore them and hang around more mature people (other friends, ex-teachers).
Oh, some kids never grow up. Everyone does mature at different rates, and some people just never quite get there. I know adults who still act like that... sigh. Just keep up your own self improvement and don't worry about having only a few friends, that just means you've got some discretion and care when choosing your companions. I was much like that myself at your age, it is not a bad thing.
Kids can mature mentally anytime, but most kids mature at a very late age these days because they think that they're invincible and they also try to be cool by taking drugs and all of that other stuff. I'm in 8th grade and I'm in the exact same situation as you, even though I only matured mentally when I was about to turn 13. I get headaches just thinking about how screwed up teens are today.



Just do what I do. Stay as mature as possible (feel free to be childish from time to time), try to hang out with friends that aren't sick in the head, and wait patiently for the other kids to mature.

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